Month: October 2018

The Best Place to Find A Transgender Woman

Transgender dating is now gaining popularity among more men because transgender women have traits that cis women don’t. It’s well known that for some trans men and trans women, it’s hard to find the perfect local transgender partner. Based on some research on trans dating, we know that looking for transgender people in certain places increases your chances of successfully dating them.

There are plenty of “ladies” in big cities like New York, Berlin, London and Paris, where you might find transgender women. But unfortunately, it’s fair to say that 99% of transgender people don’t choose to go to those big cities because they don’t see themselves as a deal. These transgenders are more likely to call themselves men or women than transgender people.

Bars and nightclubs are also good places to find transgender women in most cities. If you just want to hook up or play, these places are perfect for you. Because there are so many suckers out there, you just pay enough money and you get what you want. But if you’re looking for a transgender woman to develop a serious relationship with you, then you shouldn’t choose to go there.

As a matter of fact, many trans people hate these ladyboys because they are transgendered to make money by performing them. This is completely different from the original intention of transgender people. Because of this behavior, most people think of transgender people as a means of entertainment. In fact, for real transgender people, they just want to find a partner to develop a serious relationship after the sex reassignment surgery, instead of using that identity to make money. In a sense, the existence of ladyboys has brought more discrimination and misunderstanding. So if you’re looking for a life partner and a serious relationship, neither a bar nor a nightclub is a good place to be.

In fact, online ts dating sites and trans dating apps are currently the best place to find a trans date. Online dating has become increasingly popular in recent years. On the other hand, it takes less time to encounter trans women on some location-based trans dating sites and apps. For example, if you live in Singapore and you want to find a transgender partner living in Washington, you only need to take a few minutes setting up location information on the website to search for all transgender female users living in Washington. Online dating tools are so easy to use that you don’t have to spend hours looking for them on other social platforms. Plus, some of the support features of transgender dating sites and apps can help have a better user experience to increase your chances of meeting local transgender people.

Don’t describe a genetic woman as normal when you’re talking to a trans woman alone, because that makes her feel like she’s not normal. There’s no doubt that transgender women can never be genetic women, even if they’ve had sex reassignment surgery. That’s why they never want to compare themselves to genetic women. So when you’re talking to a transgender woman, don’t compare them to a genetic woman.

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Transition Mistakes Often Made By Transgender Beginners

There are some common mistakes which are made by most transgender beginners. I’d like to point them out. If you are a transgender beginner, just keep reading and I’m sure you will find them useful.

Wearing too much makeup. Many MTF transgender beginners wear too much makeup because they want to hide their manly appearance as much as possible. They are so terrified that they don’t look like a woman or look passable enough. Makeup is like a protective shield for us. The less we wear, the less security we have. As a matter of fact, the more makeup you wear, the less like a girl and less passable you are. For cisgender people, one of the recognition marks of shemale women are makeup. If they see a woman who wears bright-colored and exaggerated makeup, especially when you have a little bit manly body structure, they can definitely see you right through that you are a transgender. That is why you are getting clocked. Makeup is about hiding your disadvantages and show off your advantages. If you have a skin that has coarse pores, you can wear some light foundation to cover them. If you have nice eyes, just slightly put some eye shadows and eye liners on. Try to keep it as natural as possible. Remember, less is more.

Wearing too much feminine clothing. This is the biggest mistake made by many transgender women. Usually when they first start transitioning, they are so eager to demonstrate femininity. Many of them would wear super sexy clothes, such as camisole with lace edge, fishnet stockings with high heels, black stockings with pink miniskirts, etc. These are all major taboos in wearing. Hardly can you find any cisgender women would wear like these. They are far from sexy, only erratic and tasteless. Try to keep your wearing as casual as possible. Only one piece demonstrates your sex appeal will be enough, or you will get just the opposite to what you wish. Also, you have to spend much more effort on learning how to match colors. For example, do not match pink miniskirts with black stockings. Do not match any bright-colored top with another bright-colored pants. Try to stay low-key. Do not catch attention, or you will get clocked as well.

The last is body language. This is also cause by the fear of “unwomen”. After being used to be a male for years, suddenly many transgender women do not know how to behave. How to walk like a woman? Will the way I walk give me away? Is the way I talk lady-like? Am I getting clocked for the behavior I just did? It is because of too much concern and too much care, they don’t know how to be themselves. They would behave in a way they think it’s sexy and feminine. Stiff shoulders. Waving hips. Feigned arms. These are all funny behaviors which may give you away. Try to behave naturally. Be relaxed. Don’t force anything. Don’t overkill it.

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